Monday, January 27, 2014

31 weeks

Hey peeps. I am sooo happy. My check up last weekend was good, except for my rapid increase in weight, that is. It was 72kg, 3-4kg increase from last month but I'm blaming it on the scale as it was a different scale last week. Haha. My urine was clear: no glucose, no protein. For the record, I was so scared that I drank so much water the night before and in the morning that my urine for the test was very clear. I'm sure if I had anything, it would show up anyway so it was not cheating. =p Normal blood pressure = not at risk for pre-eclempsia for now. Baby's weight was around 1.7kg and Dr confirmed that it is still a girl. Next check up in 3 weeks time. Baby's head not engaged yet. She's horizontal, the head was on my left side. No sign of pre-term labour for the time being. Woohoo! Keep praying! Next check up, I can start registering for my room already. Nervous. Huhu.
Having a headache finalising the baby's name at the time being. Hopefully we can finalise with one we are both happy with soon.

Friday, January 24, 2014

Trip to Lake Kenyir

It was year-end and hubby was just itching to test drive his new car. He initially wanted to go for a short weekend getaway in Penang but it was fully booked so he asked me to find a place that was not too near from our place. After doing some research, we settled for Lake Kenyir Resort in Terengganu. It was at least 6-hours drive away and room rate was quite cheap considering the time of the year and our last minute booking, which was around RM 250 per room per night. It was also suitable for nature lover, not like myself but like my hubby. =p
Hubby wanted to go on a Friday but I went ahead and took leave on Monday so we went 28th - 30th December 2013, Sat - Mon. We started our journey around 10-ish from Bangi and met with hubby's friend near Sungai Besi tol. Arrived just in time for lunch in Temerloh, where we had ikan patin masak tempoyak and ikan patin goreng. Yummm. Just after Jabor tol, hubby followed google map's direction and was lead to use the inside road (instead of the beachside road). It was a trunk road so it was bumpy and slow whenever we couldn't over take the vehicle in front of us. Arrived at the resort around 6-ish and by that time, everyone was clearly very tired from the journey already. We had to park our car in the parking lot area, which was quite a distance to the reception and a shuttle car took us inside to the lobby and to our rooms. Luckily the room was not bad at all. It was quite nice considering how "kampung" the surrounding area was. We paid slightly extra (around RM40) to get rooms facing the lake and I would say the view from our rooms was very serene. 

Dinner was not bad. We had rice with some lauk and our friend's son had chicken chop. It costed us around RM 200, which we think was quite okay. After dinner, we went back and slept comfortably in our own beds.
The next morning, we went for breakfast separately. Our friends took their son to play at the swimming pool before breakfast but hubby and I slept in as Tricia was having her on and off fever that time so we were awake almost half of the night. After breakfast, we went for a boat ride, which was really fun!
During the boat ride tour, we stopped at a water fall area i.e. Air Terjun Sauk. Because it was monsoon season, the waterfall was very dangerous due to high water volume so it was not advisable to go for a dip that time. It was a beautiful place nevertheless. The journey up towards the waterfall area was quite a climb for me especially in my condition of 6.5 months pregnant but I made it. Haha.


After that, we jumped into our boat and went to a herb garden. We were shown different local herbs like Tongkat Ali, Kacip Fatimah and don't remember the name of the last one =p, Mahkota Dewa or something like that, which was supposed to be good for your heart and other organs. The guy who took care of the garden offered me a handful of the kacip fatimah herb, which was supposed to be good for delivery and after birth. No cost charged, just give what you feel like giving. One: I don't take herbs. I have nothing against it, just too lazy to prepare all this stuff. Two: I have no benchmark how much to give so I didn't take it.
The reception area and swimming pool
Our friends went back to their room after the ride but we went out to the nearest Klinik Kesihatan at Kampung Tengkawang, which was about 15-20 minutes away because we ran out of fever medicine for Tricia. Even though I knew the fact before, I was still very impressed and excited when was told that the service and medical charge was only RM1. The doctor tested Tricia's temperature using a mercury thermometer under her arms but she dropped it and the thermometer broke. Lucky we didn't have to pay extra charge for that. Ehehe.
We bought some nasi goreng and keropok lekor on the way back and ate with our friends. Hubby and his friend went out in the evening but since it was drizzling and Tricia was not well, we stayed in and enjoy the nice view from our balcony.
That night we went to the lobby area and had drinks there while having some fun playing carom and scrabble. Tricia wanted to feed the fish in the pond in front of the lobby area like she did in the afternoon. Although we kept telling her the fishes were sleeping, she didn't believe us. So we went to the pond and threw fish food into the pond. True enough, no fish came out to eat the food. Then only she believed us the fishes really went to sleep.
The next morning, we walked to the breakfast area. The thing about this place is... you need to climb quite a reasonable flight of stairs. Not suitable for people with knee problem/wheelchair bound. But of course, you can always call the shuttle service to pick you up. Like I said earlier, very suitable for nature lovers.
After breakfast, we went back to clean ourselves and pack. Checked out. And had lunch at Kuala Terengganu. Saw this super cool parking system. This time, we took the beach road back. Had a drink at Pantai Kemasek before splitting our way after Jabor tol. All-in-all, we had fun. Hubby was a bit disappointed that we couldn't visit the Kelah sanctuary because it was monsoon season. Maybe we will come back again but maybe next time, we will rent the boat house instead? Who knows.

Top 5 things doctors wish you'd do for your baby during pregnancy

Interesting article I received through babycenter email today.

Top 5 things doctors wish you'd do for your baby during pregnancy

In this article
  • 1. Give up the idea of eating for two
  • 2. Get a flu shot
  • 3. Check with your OB before going off your meds
  • 4. Find your baby's doctor in your third trimester
  • 5. Get into the "it takes a village" spirit
While #1 item comes as no surprise, I was quite happy to see #5 item in that article.

5. Get into the "it takes a village" spirit

"Stress during pregnancy has been linked to preterm birth and low birth weight, and those can cause developmental delays and learning disabilities," says pediatrician Alanna Levine. Obviously, just because you're pregnant doesn't mean the demands of work, home, and other children come to a screeching halt. That's why Levine counsels her pregnant patients to ask for any help – from friends, family, or partners – that lightens their load, whether it's doing laundry or providing an hour of childcare. It's especially tough for women who already have kids to take her up on this suggestion, she says, but it's just as important.

I'm not putting it up to hint anyone because I already have wonderful family and friends around to support me. I know I am very very lucky in that sense and I am very thankful for the blessing. Alhamdulillah. It is just that I totally agree being pregnant while taking care of a toddler is much more challenging compared to my first pregnancy. Last time, I can take my time to rest, put my feet up and just chill while waiting to deliver. Now I need to constantly chase after my girl, who can be quite rough at times.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

2 years 2 months

A few weeks ago, I bought Batrisyia her first set of magic colour pens. Like any other kid, she was excited to start scribbling everywhere including on her own body parts like her hands, legs, nose, chin, you name it. Her father had a hard time cleaning them of her. Haha. Then not long after, she went and scribbled on her favourite hello kitty soft toy forehead. After which, she kept asking me to clean it, which I refused. I gave her so many excuses like can only do it in the morning so that it can be left under the sun to dry, I won't do it or you will just do it again, serves you right for scribbling on your favourite toy etc.
Tired of hearing my excuses, last Monday, she took the opportunity to take her soft toy into the bathroom when she saw the toilet door was open. There were so many people around so no one noticed what she was doing. SHE WENT TO WASH HER SOFT TOY! It was all wet, of course, but all the magic colour marks were gone. She really cleaned it... HERSELF! Mummy is very very impressed. Wow sayang. 2 years old eh? So smart. So independent.

Monday, January 13, 2014

Happy new year, 2014

Am I too late to wish all of you a Happy New Year? I guess I am. Haha. We went on a quick holiday near year-end but Tricia was having fever for a week around new year, which has kept me awake most nights and left me tired after the nightmare was over. So no time to blog. It was a nightmare not because the fever was severe. It just won't go away. Whenever we gave her meds, the fever would disappear for 6 hours or so until the meds effect worn off. Went to take her blood and Dr Oo confirmed there was viral&bacteria infection in her blood but what worry my mom was her hemoglobin level was very low at 8. Mom worries it might be iron deficiency anemia/G6PD/minor thalessemia. We will let her body recover whatever supply for now but we will have to revisit that issue later.
I still owe myself lots and lots of vacation update but I guess that will just have to wait. My dearest colleague, Soke Yee, got married recently and although she wanted to keep her marriage leave for later, I told her to take it now because she will only be going for her honeymoon after I got back from maternity leave. By then, her marriage leave would have expired already. Hence I'm quite busy at work now.
Towards new year, I heard one topic in the radio talking about worst memories in 2013. My initial thought was none. Then I remembered. My dearest father passed away in 2013. It may not leave as big an impact on me as it would on his other family members, but I felt the loss nevertheless. Sometimes I felt like calling him but he is no longer around. So I will just divert my attention to focus on the arrival of our new family member soon.
Hmm, that's all for now. Wanted to update on our most recent trip to Tasik Kenyir but too lazy to start digging the pictures. Hehe. Later then. Going on another trip this Friday to Tanjung Jara Resort. Woohoo!!!